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Life on Earth – Where Powerful Forces Collide

Body Learning Blog Posted on February 26, 2015 by Robert RickoverFebruary 16, 2017

ID-100218029Check out the little guy in this 30 second video below. Known as a pond skimmer, he spends most of his life perfectly poised on the water’s surface.

In some ways his situation is not all that different from ours. We spend most of our lives on the surface of the earth.

The skimmer can leap up into the air for short periods of time. We can do that too.

The skimmer can push down a bit into the surface below him. We can do that too.

The skimmer is tethered to the earth by the gravitational force which draws it to the center of the earth.  We are too.

When the skimmer looks around, it may notice that despite that downward pull, it remains far from the earth’s center. We can make that same observation.

What keeps the skimmer, and us, on the earth’s surface?

In the case of the skimmer, he’s pushed upwards by a force that exactly matches the strength of the gravitational pull.  That upward push is provided by the surface tension of the water which reacts to his weight by trying to keep itself intact – that is by trying not to allow his weight to distort the water’s surface.

Just like the skimmer, we humans are pushed upwards by a force that exactly matches the strength of the downward gravitational pull.  That “anti-gravitational” force is created by surface we’re on, whether it’s the earth itself, or the concrete sidewalk, or the floor in our home.  Physicists use the term “hardness” to describe that force.

Any material, a wooden floor for example, has a certain degree of this “hardness”.  Hardness means that when we stand on it, it deforms a bit due to our weight, but very strong internal forces try to bring it back to it’s original shape. We make a temporary “dent” in the floor– a very small dent – and the floor tries to repair the “damage” by pushing back up against our feet.

it does that with a force that’s exactly the same strength as that created by gravity, and in exactly the opposite direction.  That’s what allows us to stay on the surface of the planet, and not disappear into it’s center.

The implications for human posture and movement in the operation of these two forces are enormous.  When we’re standing, the downward pull of gravity operates on our center of gravity, a point about 2 inches below our navel and pretty much in the center, front to back and side to side.

The upward force of the ground – our support, so to speak – pushes up onto the soles of our feet.  Between the soles of our feet (being pushed up) and our center of gravity (being pulled down) lie our feet, and our legs.  Together, they can either easily receive the earth’s support, or they can interfere with it’s free transmission to our whole body by creating excess tension.

The skimmer seems to be doing pretty well with this dance between the two forces.  We humans…not always so much so.  In some ways, the Alexander Technique can be seen as a method of helping us navigate these two forces more effectively so that we can move about on the surface of the earth with ease.

Another related method, Up With GravitySM, does this as well, by using our understanding of how gravity works on us, and combining that understanding with Alexander Technique directions.

Here’s a little experiment you might want to try:  Stand as your normally do for a few seconds, and then think, softly, to yourself, “My feet and legs are free to accept the support of the earth.”  What did you notice.  Take a walk with the same thought for a few steps, then throw the thought away and see what you notice.  Then bring it back again.*

Here are two more experiments: Sit on a firm chair, locate your sitz, or sitting, bones (2 projections downwards from your pelvis.  (You might want to put hands underneath your behind to help locate them.)  Then softly think “I’m free to receive the support of the chair.”  What do you notice?  What happens when you toss that thought away?

Finally, when you’re lying down – either on a fairly firms surface as in Alexander Technique Constructive Rest, or on your bed, softly think to yourself, “I am free to receive the support of the table (or the bed).”  Experiment with using that thought, tossing it away, and then bringing it back again.

I’d love to hear about your experiences with these directions.

*If you’re not familiar with using Alexander Technique directions, an earlier blog of mine, Throw it Away, provides some useful information on the topic.  You may also find this podcast useful:

http://bodylearning.buzzsprout.com/382/136406-effective-ways-to-use-alexander-technique-directions.mp3

 

Other podcasts related to the topic can be found here

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An interesting aside: The gravitational force we experience is created by the whole of the earth. The upward opposite force is created by the tiny bit of the earth on which we happen to be.  It seems like the earth as a whole wants us to be tethered to it, while the spot we’re on wants to push us away.  I’m sure there are some interesting metaphysical implications here.

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Change your Password – Change your Life

Body Learning Blog Posted on January 26, 2015 by Robert RickoverFebruary 16, 2017
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When is a password more than just a password?

When I teach new Alexander Technique students, I almost always give them “homework” based on experiments in thinking and moving that I’ve talked them through in their lessons.  These experiments typically involve using Alexander Technique directions (more on these below).

I emphasize that this homework need only take a few minutes a day and can be done while they are going about their usual activities. And that this can make a huge difference in their progress.

I’ve found that about half my students take to this project right away with enthusiasm.  The other half may experiment a bit, but they will typically say something like, “I guess I just forgot”  or “Too much has been going on in my life.”

As Woody Allen so nicely put it, “Eighty percent of success is showing up.”

My students almost always know how to show up and they want to show up, but…well, they just forget.  It’s a classic problem faced by Alexander Technique teachers and students.

My students have come up with some ingenious solutions like sticking post-it notes around their home and work place, or setting reminder apps on their computer or smartphone.  These are effective sometimes, not not always.

I recently listed to an episode of Spark, the CBC podcast about Tech, Trends, and New Ideas, that featured a simple and elegant – brilliant, really – solution to the problem. It was developed by Mauricio Estrella and is based on, of all things, your computer’s password!

Here it is: Make your password a short affirmation about what you want.

The program’s examples were phrases like: “I am moving on from a destructive relationship.” Or, “I am losing weight.”

Of course this could just as easily be used for Alexander Technique directions.

I typically use Freedom Directions, and I’ll give a few examples below, but there’s no reason they couldn’t be used for other types of Alexander Technique Directions: Negative Directions, classic “let” directions, etc. (For podcasts about these directions, and how to use them, click here. For blog posts on this topic, click here.)

Here are just a few of the directions I use – all sweet and short and perfect for your computer or smart phone password*:

I am free.

My neck is free.

My torso is free.

I’m free to breathe. (or My breathing is free.)

I’m free to notice my ____ (fill in the blank: feet, legs, breathing, neck etc)

The Spark podcast suggests changing the password every few weeks, which makes a lot of sense to me.

I’ve had some of my students do this for the past couple of weeks and it’s proven to be extremely effective – not just for improving their  posture and coordination while they’re using the computer, but for the rest of their life as well.

As Mauricio points out, you get to actually write out your affirmation (or, in this case, direction) as part of allowing you to access your computer or smartphone, so there’s an extra positive reward.  Also, you’re both thinking and writing out the direction which I believe gives it extra power.

If you decide to experiment with this idea – whether you’re an Alexander Technique student or teacher, or any reader interested in exploring this idea – please share you experiences in a comment below.

Listen to the (short!) Spark podcast with Maurico

Read more about Mauricio’s work

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*These are useful passwords for logging on to your home computer or smartphone.  If you feel you need longer ones, you can repeat the direction, for example: “I am free I am free I am free..”

I would definitely not recommend them for online passwords, since they use actual words which can be hacked fairly easily.  For online passwords, however, you could incorporate affirmations into this excellent advice about creating strong, yet easy to remember, passwords: Fix Your Terrible, Insecure Passwords in Five Minutes

One other reminder: If you change your computer password, be absolutely sure you know what the new on is if you want to make sure you avoid a word of trouble!

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Zen and the Art of Self Maintenance

Body Learning Blog Posted on December 18, 2014 by Robert RickoverDecember 18, 2014

ID-10050287I read Zen and the Art of Motorcycle Maintenance by Robert Pirsig in the mid-1970s, shortly after it was published and achieved instant fame. It may be the most popular philosophy book ever written, with over five million copies sold.

One reviewer called it “a novel that is meant to both entertain and edify” and it does both these things very well.  I was so absorbed by it that I read it twice.

The title is a nice riff on Zen in the Art of Archery, a spiritual classic written in 1953 by Eugen Herrigel.  That book approached zen the way most Japanese do – through ritualized arts of discipline and beauty, which may explain why it continues to be widely read. It has been popular with Alexander Technique teachers and students as long as I can remember.

Both books use their author’s experiences as a vehicle to impart some profound ideas about life, and how we can make the best of our own.

I recently listened to parts of a wonderful 1974 CBC Radio interview* with Pirsig and was struck again by the many resonances of his thinking with basic Alexander ideas.

For example, he talks a lot about quality as something worth striving for.  That’s certainly an Alexander aim too.  Indeed the Technique can be described as a way of learn how to sit, stand and move through life with the best quality we’re capable of.

Achieving that quality is in some ways a very simple process, but not necessarily an easy one. As F. Matthias Alexander said, “This work is so simple, you know.  The trouble is, it’s too simple.”

Or as Marjorie Barstow, the first person to graduate from Alexander’s first training course in 1934 would say from time to time, “You people just won’t believe how simple this work is.”  But she never said it was easy.

Was F. M. Alexander a closet Zen Master?

Was F. M. Alexander a closet Zen Master?

Alexander’s work was sometimes called a form of “Western Zen” – a description that Alexander probably would not have cared for.  But certainly there are a lot of paradoxical aspects to the work – simple, but not easy for example – that have a Zen-ish quality.

And I have to wonder if Alexander had titled his third book Zen and the Art of Self Maintenance, instead of Use of the Self, he might have reached a wider audience. (I won’t mention his other three book titles!)

I’d love to hear what you think about these comparisons. Do you see any Zen connections with the Technique? What are the parallels, and what are the differences?

Please leave your comments below or on Facebook.

* The interview – which I highly recommend – was broadcast on the Canadian Broadcasting Company’s Ideas series and you read about it, and listen to it here: The Motorcycle is Yourself

Here’s an interesting interview I did with Alexander Technique teacher Michael Frederick about the differences between the Alexander Technique and the Feldenkrais Method that includes several references to Zen in the Art of Archery:

http://bodylearning.buzzsprout.com/382/27324-the-alexander-technique-and-the-feldenkrais-method-similarities-and-differences.mp3
Both Persig’s and Herrigal’s books are readily available in inexpensive editions from Amazon – and both are well worth reading if you haven’t already done so:  Zen and the Art of Motorcycle Maintenance and Zen in the Art of Archery

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Sex and the Alexander Technique – Part 2

Body Learning Blog Posted on October 20, 2014 by Robert RickoverNovember 16, 2014

In my previous post, Sex and the Alexander Technique – Part 1, I provided an overview of what was available on this topic 20 years ago.

Slim pickings, to say the least!

Fortunately for all of us, the situation is a far better today.

To start with, we have a very popular episode at the Alexander Technique Podcast which I did with Alexander Technique teacher Constance Clare-Newman on the topic a few years ago.  You can listen to it here:

http://bodylearning.buzzsprout.com/382/2898-sex-sexuality-and-the-alexander-technique.mp3

 

In 2010, The Frisky (sic!) featured an interview with Alexander Technique teacher Rachel Bernsen titled: Frisky Q & A: For Better Sex, Look to the Alexander Technique that received a good deal of attention.

Also in 2010, Alexander Technique teacher Penny O’Connor write a piece titled “Sex and the Alexander Technique” in her blog.

In 2011, Alexander Technique teacher Paige McKinney explored the question “So what about the Alexander Technique and Sex?” in her blog.

Finally, Alexander Technique Chloe Stallibrass, conducted a study titled “Sexuality and the Alexander technique: a study based on a survey of teachers and students at an Alexander training centre in London,” summer 1990.  (I have not been able to read it, but the link points to places where you can find it.)

Doubtless there are other examples.  If you know of any that should be included, let me know. Clearly, there is a far more open attitude today, and I’m sure we’ll be seeing a lot more material about the Technique and sex.

Please consider making your own contribution to this important topic – perhaps contact me about doing a podcast interview or a guest blog.

I’ll leave the final word to F. Matthias Alexander himself:

About a year ago I came across an entry in George Trevelyan’s diary of his experiences on F. Mathias Alexander’s first training course.  The January 27, 1934 entry begins with this:

Many of the failures in marriage, F. M. contends, are due to the failure on the part of the man to inhibit and hold back.  In response to his excitement he stiffens, therefore often enough preventing the connection and response from a sensitive woman, and, again, he often finishes too soon for her satisfaction because there is no adequate control.  CCC and the ability not to tense himself should in no way modify his strength of feeling or sense of pleasure and by giving her more chance of feeling should again bring a further response in himself.  Thus a knowledge of use should not only make the man a better lover but will make the sexual processes, menstruation and childbirth incomparable easier for the woman.

Mighty powerful stuff from the Great Man himself!

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Sex and the Alexander Technique – Part 1

Body Learning Blog Posted on October 13, 2014 by Robert RickoverNovember 16, 2014

About 20 years ago, I was somehow persuaded by Jeremy Chance to be the Guest Editor of the Sexuality Issue of Direction Journal.

Why me?  I have no idea, but it did seem like an interesting challenge.

The main problem I faced was there was almost nothing about the topic to found anywhere.

Dr. Wilfred Barlow’s book, The Alexander Principle (1973), did have a chapter titled “The Psycho-Mechanics of Sex” which I read through a couple of times with almost total incomprehension.  I was unable to fathom the connection he was (I assume) trying to make between the Alexander Technique and sex.  (I fully accept that this could reflect my own limitations and would certainly love to hear from anyone who found his chapter useful.)

On the other hand, Judith Stansky, an American teacher of the Alexander Technique, was quite explicit and easy to understand.  Her book The Alexander Technique – Joy in the Life of Your Body (1981), contained a section titled “Why Changes for the Better Occur in your Sex Life”  in which she provides examples from her students and, most powerfully, from her own life:

My first love relationship was a beautiful and exciting sexual experience.  However, I never experienced an orgasm.  My lover was very skilled and I often felt close to coming through but it never happened…Then one time it happened. My partner had done nothing different.  But I had.  I had taken Alexander lessons…

As my pelvis became freed in the Alexander lessons, I moved more freely in sexual activity…My pelvis fell into good alignment, and allowed the stream of sexuality to flow unhindered to completion.

Apart from one fairly obscure paragraph* in Constructive Conscious Control, F. Matthias Alexander made no mention of the benefits of his work with regard to sex in any of his four books.

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So that was the situation I faced as Editor in the early 1990s.

Fortunately, things have changed a good deal since then and the new developments (and a recent discovery of mine about F. M. Alexander’s views on the subject) will be the topic of Part 2.

Stay tuned!

* Here’s the FM quote: The very conception of a separation and class-distinction between “body, mind, and soul ”  indicates the presence of a more than usually potent stimulus which could emanate only from a condition of overbalancing in some direction. As far as we can learn, the poor body came into disgrace on account of the ” lusts of the flesh,” themselves a natural result of a mal-co-ordinated condition, and if we may judge by the special laws and customs which were formulated, the chief results of this unbalanced condition would seem to have manifested themselves in the sexual sphere. Else why should this sphere have been particularly selected for condemnation, seeing that the satisfaction of the needs and desires of the reproductive system is as essential as the satisfaction of the needs and desires of the digestive and assimilative systems to the welfare of the individual and of the race, and that the results of satisfying the sensory desires and needs of these three systems are normal and salutary, as long as moderate use and not abuse is the rule? The evil of over-eating is only equalled by that of over-drinking, and surely in the last analysis the abuse of the sexual act is intensified by one or the other, or by both. A man or an animal placed on a low diet does not evince any particular desires in the way of sex-relations. As a matter of fact, the very reverse would prove to be the rule. – Sensory Appreciation and its Relation to Man’s Evolutionary Development, Constructive Conscious Control by F. Matthias Alexander

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Switch it Up

Body Learning Blog Posted on October 6, 2014 by Robert RickoverMarch 30, 2024

The trouble is none of my pupils will believe that all they need to do is to think and that wish for the neck to be free will do the trick…We are so brutalized by our belief in doing and muscular tension.* – F. Matthias Alexander

As an Alexander Technique teacher, I’m faced with this problem everyday.

So…what’s the best way to help students learn that all they need is a light thought to “do the trick” as Alexander so nicely puts it?

I’ve found that providing an easy to understand analogy can often be helpful.  I’ll sometimes ask if they prefer an electrical engineering analogy, or a military analogy.

If they spring for electrical engineering I’ll direct their attention to a light switch in my studio.  I’ll then point out that if they want the lights turned on, or off, all they have to do if flick it in the appropriate direction.

It takes virtually no effort to do this – indeed it’s possible make a light switch that activated by pure thought using electrodes attached to your head.  Adding effort does nothing to make the on/off process more effective.

Nor does it require any understanding of the complex electro-mechanical systems that they are using by flicking the switch.  They don’t need to understand the coal or gas or nuclear power system that generates the current. And nothing of the complex nation-wide grid that ensures enough power is available here in eastern Nebraska to activate the lights. And nothing of the local transformers, residential wiring, light bulb technology etc etc that’s involved in lighting, or darkening, the room

By the same token, they do not need to understand or micro-manage all their own “sub-systems” that are affected by a simple mental direction such as “I am free.” or “My neck is free.”

In a sense, the end result is already there and just needs to be chosen – tuned into, so to speak. When the lights are out, and you want them on, that “on-ness” is built into the system and simply has to be selected to bring it into being.

Similarly, when a student is inadvertently compressing him or herself, a freer state is already available. For it to manifest, it need only be chosen.

No force, no effort, no holding onto the thought, no analyzing, no attempt to implement it by force of will.

If a student chooses the military analogy, I bring up the Allied invasion of France on D-Day, 1944.

By the first week of June 1944, Nazi Germany still controlled most of Western Europe. Allied forces, numbering 156,000, were poised to travel by ship or plane over the English Channel to attack the German army dug in at Normandy and open up a path to Berlin.

General Eisenhower, the Supreme Allied Commander, was holed up in a country estate in England. He had a window of only four days of decent weather in which an invasion would be possible. When bad weather hit the channel on June 4, Eisenhower wrestled with the idea of postponing the invasion.

Weather conditions were predicted to worsen over the next two weeks and he had many thousands of personnel and tons supplies that were in his words, “hanging on the end of a limb”.

After a promising but cautious report from his meteorologist at 9:45 p.m. on June 5, Eisenhower turned to his adjutant and said “let’s go”.

Let’s go. That’s all he had to do to get the invasion started.  He didn’t need to put any effort into that command. Just “let’s go.”

And that’s how we make meaningful changes in how we function – we simply, softly, affirm the change we want.

As Alexander said: “All you need to do is the right thought…and that will do the trick!”

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*Quoted in the diary of Sir George Trevelyan, one of the students in Alexander’s first teacher training course.

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What would you do…

Body Learning Blog Posted on September 27, 2014 by Robert RickoverSeptember 27, 2014
Your guest has arrived!

Your guest has arrived.  And he’s hungry!

…if Alexander came to spend some time with you?

That’s F. Matthias Alexander, of course, developer of the Alexander Technique.

Country music lovers may recognize the question as a variant of the profound query – one I actually thought about a lot as a kid – posed in a classic Porter Wagoner narration song. More about that later.

So…what would you do if FM came a knocking at your door?

I assume at the very least you’d offer him a cup of tea.  Perhaps with some clotted cream and scones.

As for me, I’d want to hang out with him as much as possible, asking all sorts of questions about his life and his discoveries, and about what he makes of the current Alexander Technique scene.  I would be especially interested in his take on developments in Alexander Technique directions over the past few years.

I would try to arrange a podcast interview with him, and get him to write a guest blog.

And, given the current interest in Delsarte’s influence on him, I’d ask him about that as well.

I’d politely ask if he’d like to do a teaching exchange but I’d be totally understanding if he didn’t.

If time and money were available, I love to take him on a world tour of Alexander teacher training courses and sit quietly in a corner watching the interplay between FM and the trainers  and students.

And if the timing worked, I’d suggest he give the Annual F. Matthias Memorial Lectures for STAT and AmSAT.

I bet he’d want to attend the 2015 Congress in Ireland, if he could get over it not being in England!

And I’m sure he’d like to see Melbourne and Sydney, two of his old 19th century stomping grounds, in their 21st century incarnations.  And while he was in Australia, we could take a short hop over to Tasmania to visit his hometown of Wynyard to see the bizarre statue of him in the local museum.

We could actually stay in his childhood home, now converted to a modern vacation rental  property with a flat-screen TV and Wi-Fi.  He could chat with descendants of his family, and their neighbors.

But enough about me. I think it could be a very useful exercise for you, dear reader, to think through just how you would feel if Alexander showed up on your doorstep.

I’d love to hear how you would react – by commenting below, or on Facebook.

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Back to the original quote: There are at least two Alexander Technique teachers who also professionally sing and play country music, and several others who love the genre.

You know who you are!

Wouldn’t it be fun to write an Alexander version of Porter’s song?  And perform it live at Alexander Technique functions?

OK here’s the song – time to get to work!

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Throw it Away!

Body Learning Blog Posted on September 21, 2014 by Robert RickoverFebruary 16, 2017

I love this quote* by F. Matthias Alexander!

For me, it gets to the heart of a major obstacle faced by students as they begin to explore Alexander Technique directions – the strong temptation to hold on to the nice changes they experience, whether from an Alexander Technique teacher’s hands-on guidance, of from their own self-directing.

In my experience, you can reason with them until you’re blue in the face, explaining that “you can’t fix a movement” or “trying to hold on to a feeling takes you away from the thought that brought it about” etc. etc. and they’ll nod their head in accent and then continue grasping at results at the expense of process.

So…what to do?

I’ve tried all sorts of approaches. and I find one of the most effective is to teach them to deliberately “throw away” the direction I’ve just asked them to use – and see what happens.  And then to bring that direction back, continue it for a bit, and then toss it away again.  And then bring the direction back.

I usually begin in the first lesson and the particular framework I use most often in which to run these experiments is walking.  It’s an activity they’re going to be doing over the course of their day, it has a nice rhythmical quality, and especially when it’s done on creaky wooden floors can produce some nice auditory feedback.

I might start by asking a student to think something like “I am free” or “My neck is free.”  I’ll go through a little explanation that these are very soft thoughts, not something to do.  The student’s job is to think the thought lightly with absolutely no concern about what it means or how it might be implemented.

Their job is to softly think the direction and leave all the messy details up to lower level systems.  Total outsourcing – or, really, in-sourcing!

I also tell them that they will almost certainly forget the direction, probably within a second or two.  No problem. When they notice they’ve lost track of it, just gently bring it back.  Over and over again.

Then I ask them to take that thought into a little walk around my studio.  After perhaps 10-15 seconds, I ask them to keep walking, but throw the thought away.  Then, a few seconds later, I ask them to gently bring it back.

I might go through 2-3 repetitions – any more and “throwing it away” becomes a little problematical.

Almost always, when they throw the thought away, they notice that they drop down into themselves.  Often they can hear the sound of their feet arriving at the floor becoming louder. This, I point out, is a direct experience of their old habit.

Then, when they bring the thought back, they lighten up and their footfalls become softer again.

I then ask them to go through this same kind of experiment on their own, with a variety of activities, a few times each day.

Deliberately throwing their useful self-direction away, and then bringing it back has the effect of lessening their desire to hold on to it in the first place.  After all, if it’s a simple matter to bring it back, there’s really no need to try to keep it.

After awhile (maybe a week or so) most students realize they don’t actually have to throw their directions away to use their directions in a light, “forgiving-of-forgetting” kind of way.

Here’s an interview Imogen Ragone did with me as part of her series about Alexander Technique teachers’ first lessons in which I talk a little more about this process:

http://bodylearning.buzzsprout.com/382/124769-a-first-alexander-technique-lesson-with-robert-rickover.mp3

 

How have you – teacher or student – dealt with the “holding onto” problem which Alexander so nicely identifies?  I’d love to hear about your own experiences with directing.

Please leave your responses below and/or on Facebook.

*Quoted in the diary of Sir George Trevelyan, which can be found in The Philosopher’s Stone – Diaries of Lessons with F. Matthias Alexander

 

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Athens to Australia

Body Learning Blog Posted on September 15, 2014 by Robert RickoverSeptember 15, 2014
Aristotle

Aristotle of Athens

It is the mark of an educated mind to be able to entertain a thought without accepting it. – Aristotle

I stumbled upon this quote in a Toronto health magazine when I was teaching there recently, and I have been thinking about it ever since.

I keep coming back to the idea that it relates to the concept of inhibition, developed by the late F. Matthias Alexander.  One way to define inhibition is the conscious decision of not to do what you do not want to do.

Inhibition is often considered a core idea underlying the  Alexander Technique.

I suspect Aristotle’s quote is also related to Alexander’s concept of non-doing – perhaps best exemplified in this Alexander quote from 1933:

“…the trouble is none of my pupils will believe that all they need to do is to think and that wish for the neck to be free will do the trick….We are all so brutalized by our belief in doing and muscular tension.”*

Lurking in the back of my mind is the thought that there are some additional hidden meanings in Aristotle’s quote that I can’t quite get. Part of my thought process has involved creating alternative versions of Aristotle’s quote that might resonate a little more clearly with Alexander teachers and students.

Here are a few I’ve come up with:

It is the mark of an educated mind to entertain an intent without actually acting on that intent.

It is the mark of an educated mind to entertain an action without carrying it out.

It is the mark of an educated mind to entertain the possibility of doing something without actually doing it.

I’d love to see what you can come up with – please feel free to post them below, along with any thoughts you have about the original quote, and about how it relates to the discoveries of F. Matthias Alexander.

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Alexander

Alexander of Australia

An interesting aside:

Aristotle was, of course, one of the most famous and influential thinkers in all of human history.

He was also Alexander’s personal tutor for 3 years!

No, not F. M. but that other Alexander, Phillip II of Macedon’s son, Alexander the Great.

It’s entirely possible F. M. actually read Aristotle’s quote at some point, perhaps during his “home schooling” days in Tasmania in the late 19th Century, some 2300 or so years after Aristotle’s time.

Here are a few other quotes by Aristotle that have some Alexander Technique resonance:

The energy of the mind is the essence of life.

Knowing yourself is the beginning of all wisdom.

What it lies in our power to do, it lies in our power not to do.

Was Aristotle a closet Alexander Technique teacher?  Was Alexander an Aristotle Technique teacher?

*Quoted in the diary of Sir George Trevelyan, which can be found in The Philosopher’s Stone – Diaries of Lessons with F. Matthias Alexander

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Free for All

Body Learning Blog Posted on September 2, 2014 by Robert RickoverFebruary 16, 2017

ID-100141193I am free.

That’s a simple example of an Alexander Technique Freedom Direction.*

Freedom Directions are both amazingly simple, and amazingly powerful.

Would you like to do a little experiment to test that claim, an experiment that could change your life significantly for the better?

One that can be done while you are doing your ordinary daily activities?

OK, here goes:

Gently think, or if you prefer, silently say to yourself “I am free” for a total of five minutes a day for one week.

Divide that five minutes into much shorter periods – 10 seconds, 20 seconds – certainly no longer than a full minute.

Choose a variety of activities in which to think, or silently say to yourself, “I am free.”  Choose activities you are going to do anyway.  Walking, speaking, sitting, mowing the lawn, taking out the trash, watching TV, getting ready for a nap…whatever.

Let go of any intent to make something happen or not happen. Let go of any concern about understanding what “I am free” means. Let go of any interest evaluating the results of this experiment until the week is over.

Let go of any effort of any kind, including any effort to remember “I am free” during these short intervals.  If you notice you’ve forgotten the thought, have no concern.  Just gently bring it back.

When the week is over, ask yourself if anything is changed about how you move, or about your posture, or your breathing.  Or about any other aspect of your life.

If you’re not sure, check with people you know – especially people you haven’t seen during the  week.

If you want, you can listen to the two podcasts below about Freedom Directions.  But it’s fine if you don’t.

http://bodylearning.buzzsprout.com/382/112493-an-interesting-new-development-in-alexander-technique-directing.mp3

 

http://bodylearning.buzzsprout.com/382/123626-an-interesting-new-development-in-alexander-technique-directing-part-2.mp3

 

Or, you could watch this very short video about Freedom Directions:

When the week is over, please share your experience in the Comments box below.

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* Freedom Directions were originated by Cincinnati, Ohio Alexander Technique teacher Jennifer Roig-Francollii

Image courtesy of image courtesy of rakratchada FreeDigitalPhotos.net

 

 

 

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