Smile!

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OK, I’m going to confess.  I was seduced by a clever bit of click bait titled: Neuroscience Says Doing This 1 Thing Makes You Just as Happy as Eating 2,000 Chocolate Bars.

2000 chocolate bars!  I do love chocolate, especially very dark chocolate.  But I hesitated because I wasn’t sure I wanted 2000.  That would easily be about a 5 year supply and the thought of eating them all at the same time (you can see how my mind works) caused me to hesitate.  There were weight gain and stomach pain possibilities to consider.

I paused.

But then, I read the subtitle: “It also gives you the same neurological boost as receiving $25,000”

And that’s what pushed me over the click threshold.  And in fact it’s a pretty interesting and informative article if you’d like to read it yourself.

If you don’t, here’s what that one thing to do is, in case your haven’t already guessed: Smile.

That’s it, just smile.  As the article explains: “Smiling, as it turns out, has truly remarkable effects. First, doing it actually makes you feel good even if you’re not feeling good in the moment.”

Now smiling doesn’t always come naturally to me, maybe because my parents weren’t inclined to smile a lot.  Maybe because I have some morose tendencies.  Who knows.

But one thing I do know from my Alexander Technique experience: smiling helps release tension throughout my body.  And as the late Alexander Technique teacher Marjorie Barstow used to say: “You always move more easily with a smile”

There are a lot of ways to smile, of course, and some can be a bit forced.  They may only get you the benefits of receiving 1000 chocolate bars, or maybe just $10,000.

I believe the most effective smile is one that springs effortlessly from within, perhaps the kind you had when you first saw the picture above. But also by using a simple Alexander Technique direction* such as “I’m free to smile” or “I’m my head is free” delivered to yourself with no effort or expectation.

Give it a try and see what happens!

I’d love to hear your experiences, either by commenting below or on Facebook.

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*You can learn more about Alexander Technique directions here.

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Not surprisingly, country music singers are real good at smiling while singing sad songs.  Here’s one of my favorite examples – psychic death accompanied by a killer smile:

Power Up: Extend and Amplify Your Alexander Technique Directions

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Learning how to usefully self-direct yourself in an effective way is one of the most important skills an Alexander Technique student acquires from lessons in the Technique.  It is, to use the title of F. M. Alexander’s second book, truly what “Constructive Conscious Control” is all about.

And to borrow from the title of Alexander’s third book,* self-directing is what enables you to improve the quality of your use of of yourself – how you use your physical mechanism as you go through your day’s activities.  Sitting, standing, walking, driving, sitting at a desk, cooking, singing, sports…whatever you do.

Learning how to effectively direct yourself is a skill that does take a bit of experimentation and practice. Alexander Technique directions themselves are incredibly simple.  But we humans often like to take something simple and make it more complex, for example by analyzing or judging, or trying to make it happen, or getting caught up in the results of our self-directing.

(If you’re not familiar with Alexander Technique directions this is a good place to learn about them: New Developments in Alexander Technique Directions In particular, I suggest listening to: Effective ways to use Alexander Technique Directions and to: A Brief History of Alexander Technique Directions)

The rewards of learning how to drop all that extra stuff is well worth the investment.  It allows you to go through life without unconsciously creating restrictions in your body.

And that makes you’re life a lot easier, and a lot more fun!

I’ve always been intrigued by the Alexander Technique self-directing process and how it can be improved.  In particular, I’ve wondered if its possible to expand, or lengthen, the use of directions without adding the kind of effort or chatter that prevents them being effective.

Effective Direction Extension – that’s what I wanted!

Recently I’ve been reading Eckart Tolle’s** book, The Power of Now, and came upon this simple exercise:

Close your eyes and say to yourself: “I wonder what my next thought is going to be.”  Then become very alert and wait for the next thought.  Be like a cat watching a mouse hole.  What thought is going to come out of the mouse hole?  Try it now.

Try it for yourself right now.

You might find that another thought doesn’t appear right away.

I started experimenting with following my self-directions with Tolle’s question. I then use the little “thoughtless” gap that appears to re-introduce my original direction, or another direction, followed again, of course, by the “I wonder” thought.  This procedure allows me to effortlessly repeat a direction, or switch to a new direction, for a much longer time than I had in the past.

If you’d like to experiment give it a try. The process can be continued for as long as you like. Personally, I find that after a few minutes I get a little bored with it.

But not so bored that I can’t easily be drawn to repeat the process.

I’ve also experimented with some of my students (both in-person and distance learning) and it seems to be helpful for them as well.

So, once again, I’ve enlisted my colleague Imogen Ragone to explore the process herself in a short video session:

Let me know what you discover, below and/or on Facebook.

* Alexander’s third book is titled The Use of the Self.

** You can listen to an OnBeing interview by Krista Tippett with Eckhart Tolle: The Power of Now

 

Unconscious Destructive Control

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When I started reading The Power of Now by Eckart Tolle I was puzzled by what seemed to be a negative view of the human mind, and of thinking.

As an Alexander Technique teacher it’s always seemed to me that our ability to direct our thinking in a useful way is what really lies at the heart of the work.  After all, isn’t “Man’s Supreme Inheritance” – the title of F. M. Alexander’s first book – basically our potential to use our mind to change the circumstances of our lives?

And isn’t that also what he means by the title of his second book, Constructive Conscious Control of the Individual*?

And as the late Marjorie Barstow, the first person to graduate from Alexander’s first teacher training course liked to say: “People think this is bodywork.  But, really, it’s brainwork.”

So why on earth is this writer, who so many people deeply respect, intent on trashing thinking, and the thinking mechanism?

It took me a little while to realize it wasn’t the mind itself he objected to – it was our identification with it.  That’s what causes thoughts to become compulsive – and destructive.

As he writes:

Then the mind is using you.  You are unconsciously identified with it, so you don’t even know that you are it’s slave. It’s almost as if you were possessed without knowing it, and so you take the possessing entity to be yourself…

You have probably come across “mad” people in the street incessantly talking or muttering to themselves.  Well, that’s not much different from what you and all other “normal” people do, except that you don’t do it out loud.  The voice comments, speculates, judges, compares, complains, likes, dislikes, and so on.  The voice isn’t necessarily relevant to the situation you find yourself in at the time; it may be reviving the recent or distant past or rehearsing of imagining future situations.

In other words, taking you out of the present moment, the only place in which your mind can actually be helpful to you.

As he says, “The mind is a superb instrument if used rightly”. And:

Your mind is an instrument, a tool.  It is there to be used for a specific task, and when that task is completed, you lay it down.  As it is, I would say about 80 to 90 percent of most people’s thinking is not only repetitive and useless, but because of its dysfunctional and often negative nature, much of it is also harmful.

So really Tolle is not against useful thinking – perhaps we could call that constructive conscious thinking…or even constructive conscious control.  He’s concerned with our tendency to settle into useless and harmful mental rant patterns.  Destructive unconscious control, as it were.

I believe Alexander was on to this in his many condemnations of what he called “mind-wandering”. To take just one example from Constructive Conscious Control:

…in the sphere of learning something and learning to do something, the shortcoming most frequently recognized is that known as “mind-wandering.”

Now there exists a close connection between the shortcoming which is recognized as “mind-wandering” and the shortcoming which manifests itself as a seriously weakened response to a stimulus to an act (or acts) of self-preservation. – page 13

It seems to me that Alexander’s “mind wandering” is pretty much the same as Tolle’s “identification with the mind”.

Tolle has a lot of practical advice about weakening, and ultimately releasing, that pattern but that’s perhaps a topic for another blog. But this will give you some idea of the approach he takes:

The beginning of freedom is the realization that you are not the possessing entity – the thinker.  Knowing this enables you to observe the entity.  The moment you start watching the thinker, a higher level of consciousness becomes activated.

I believe that “higher level of consciousness” is, in Alexander’s words, “our supreme inheritance”.

And for me, an Alexanderian approach to moving towards my own “supreme inheritance” is to use simple, effective, easily-testable, in the moment self-directions such as “my neck is free”, “I’m free”, or “I’m not compressing myself”.**

I’d love to hear your experiences, and your thoughts, on this.  Please post them below and/or on Facebook.

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*British Alexander Technique teacher Hilary King has a nice definition of Constructive Conscious Control.

**You can learn more about Alexander Technique directions here: New Directions in Alexander Technique Directing

As you might expect, Country Music songs frequently address the issue of poor thinking leading to disastrous results.  Here’s a nice example:

And here’s a more hopeful song:

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Beware of Body Bullies Behaving Badly!

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A recent article in the New York Times, When the Bully is the Boss, explores the effects that a bullying leader has on organizations. Not surprisingly, it turns out bullying doesn’t really lead to better productivity:

…the vast majority of findings point to the same conclusion: Bullying bosses tend to undermine their own teams. Morale and company loyalty plunge, tardiness increases and sick days are more frequent.

Productivity may rise in the short term…But over time the performance of the staff or team deteriorates, and people quit.

And yet, bullies often continue to be promoted.

Which seems nonsensical, but as a teacher of the Alexander Technique, I suspect this has something to do with our false notions of how to manage ourselves – carried over into the wider world.

It’s a common belief that if our bodies need improving, a good general way to do that is by increasing the amount, or the intensity, of our exercise routine.

If we’re trying to improve a particular skill, the solution is to study harder, practice longer, push ourselves harder.

More quantity, in other words.

What’s missing is the quality factor. The manner in which we do those exercises, that extra study, the longer practice.

Push ourselves harder to make ourselves better.

Which makes as much sense as fixing a car that not running well by taking it out to the Interstate for a 75 miles an hour drive.  (Or the Autobahn for 100 plus miles per hour!)

Revving up the activity of a defective mechanism – or a poorly functioning individual – does nothing to improve the situation.

It just destroys the machine.

And reinforces a person’s harmful habits, and drives them in more deeply.

It’s a kind of self-bullying that can easily carry over into the rest of our lives, including our workplace relationships.  And if we happen to be the boss…well heaven help our subordinates!

F. Matthias Alexander, the developer of the Alexander Technique, learned from years of self-observation and teaching others that forceful thoughts or actions are usually ineffective at producing useful change.

What works, he discovered, are well-thought strategies of thought that are brought to bear on ourselves with a minimum of mental force or effort.  As he said: “Talk to the body gently and it will do anything.”

Or, as Marjorie Barstow, the first person to graduate from his first teacher training course in the early 1930’s used to say: “Don’t be pushy with your thinking.”

I believe that general rule applies to all our interactions.  Talk and behave towards others as you would like them to talk and behave towards you, and everyone will be happier and, in a workplace environment, more productive.

I’d love to hear your thoughts and comments below and/or on Facebook.

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Why Did They Leave? – An Alexander Technique Puzzle

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Ever since I started teaching the Alexander Technique nearly 40 years ago, I’ve wondered why some students stop taking lessons after the first one or two – despite experiencing significant improvements in their posture and the way they move. Changes they and their friends and family have noticed.

It’s a small percentage of students, but included my 3rd student! Fortunately I was prepared for this by Paul Collins, one of the Directors of my teacher training course in London.

“The point when real change starts to happen is a dangerous one.  That’s when some of your students will just disappear.” He said that to a group of us trainees, without giving any explanation.

Over the years I’ve asked many other teachers if they’ve had the same kind of experience and almost all said “yes”.

My obsession with this question eventually led me to do a podcast interview for the Alexander Technique Podcast with Mark Josefsberg, an Alexander teacher in New York City.  I had come up with a list of 4 or 5 possible explanations and we discussed them all in our interview titled Why Do Some Students Take One Or Two Lessons And Then Quit Even Though They And Others Have Noticed Major Benefits which you can listen to here:

 

Recently I’ve been reading The Power of Now by Eckhart Tolle and was struck by something he wrote which is closely related to one of my possible explanations – but now stands out for me as an aspect I had not fully considered.

Here’s what he wrote:

The ego’s needs are endless.  It feels vulnerable and threatened and so lives in a state of fear and want.  Once you know how the basic dysfunction operates, there is no need to explore all its countless manifestations, no need to make it into a complex personal problem.  The ego, of course, loves that.  It is always seeking for something to attach itself to in order to uphold and strengthen its illusory sense of self, and it will readily attach itself to your problems.  This is why, for so many people, a large part of their sense of self is intimately connected with their problems.  Once this has happened, the last thing they want is to become free of them; that would mean loss of self.  There can be a great deal of unconscious ego investment in pain and suffering. (Emphasis mine)

What I take from this is that if an Alexander Technique student is indeed “intimately connected with their problems”, and those are the very problems are why he or she came for lessons – well as a teacher you may have a serious challenge on your hands.

And your student might well disappear as soon as it’s clear that the Alexander process is working for them.

I’d love to hear of other teachers’ experiences with this phenomenon and any thoughts on how best to deal with it.  Please leave your comments below and/or on Facebook.

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Pause Power

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I’ve just started reading Eckart Tolle’s book, The Power of Now.  It’s somewhat of a spiritual classic and has been recommended to me by several people over the years.

This is not a book review, but let me begin by saying I can already see why it is so highly regarded, and recommend it highly.

I was immediately struck by Alexander Technique resonances that show up almost right away, especially Tolle’s emphasis on pausing as a way of being in the present moment – not caught up in memories of past events or speculation about future possibilities.

Alexander teachers and students will likely see an obvious parallel to the fundamental Alexandrian concept of Inhibition.*  However, just how we can effectively inhibit is a pretty contentious issue in the Alexander world, and I don’t want to get into that debate here.

But the usefulness of pausing, or even just consciously slowing down, is something most of us can agree on.

One of the reasons I like this book so much is that Tolle actually inserts his own pause symbol every page or two, after important concepts are introduced.  As he writes:

The pause symbol after certain passages is a suggestion that you might want to stop reading for a moment, become still, and feel the experience of the truth of what has just been said.

Such a simple concept – and yet so powerful!  I found it totally changed the way I read the book and they way I processed what I was reading. And that helped me get a much deeper understanding of what he was saying and how to make use of that understanding.

It certainly made me realize that I probably would do well to pause more frequently, and for longer periods of time, when explaining Alexander Technique principles to my students.  I do tend to get a little over enthusiastic about the Technique and can be guilty of trying to cram too much information into a lesson!

More generally, it’s easy to fall into the habit of speaking or reading aloud on any topic too quickly and not leave enough time for the audience to process what you’re saying.  The short video at the bottom of this page shows a short Alexander Technique lesson that addresses this issue.

And even more generally, it’s easy to fall into the habit of doing anything without giving yourself a chance to do it with a little mindfulness.

That mindfulness could allow you to do it in a more efficient, less harmful, way.

Or even nudge you away from from doing it at all if, upon reflection, it would likely produce harmful consequences.

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If you have read Tolle’s books, or watched any of his many YouTube videos, have you also seen parallels to Alexander’s ideas?  Have they helped you to effectively use Alexander self-directions and/or have Alexander Technique directions helped you to implement Tolle’s ideas into your life? Please leave your comments below or on Facebook.

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*Here’s a short definition of Alexander Technique Inhibition by London Alexander Technique teacher Hilary King:

In the Alexander Technique, the term refers to a process which one can learn within AT lessons, in which a person consciously chooses to stop or inhibit a habitual reaction to a stimulus. This allows the individual a moment’s pause, in which to choose whether or not to respond to the stimulus and if so, how to perform an action in response.

As Alexander stated:

‘all those who wish to change something in themselves must learn… to inhibit their immediate reaction to any stimulus to gain a desired end’ – Use of the Self

Here’s a nice article about different kinds of pauses, and their benefits: The Power of a Pause

And here’s the short video mentioned above featuring the late Marjorie Barstow showing the benefits of slowing down to a student who is reading to an audience.

Apples to Apples: You’re not a Cat, a Dog, or a Child

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British Alexander Technique teacher Marcus Sly recently published a blog titled Is Good Use Innate? in which he writes about the tendency of Alexander teachers to use examples from the animal kingdom to illustrate the kind of graceful co-ordination we should aspire to.

As he says, “Alexander teachers sure do like cats!”

And, let’s never forget, dogs!

But, as Marcus observes, we are not in fact cats, dogs, horses, nor (I would add) monkeys. Their developmental history and their environment are very different from ours.  Comparing the way they use themselves to ours, and wanting to emulate theirs, doesn’t really make much sense.

I highly recommend reading Marcus’ blog in full, but here are a couple of quotes from it that will give you some idea of his line of reasoning:

At some point humans started to consciously change their own behaviour and responses in order to learn how to do completely new things. I suggest that this change is not on a continuum with what animals do, but has taken us onto another continuum altogether. For us the direct, innate, link between our desires, needs and intentions, and the body’s response to those, is literally broken. We are no longer ‘hardwired’ in the way animals seem to be, which enables us to choose new ways of doing things.

…a large part of the instruction set for being a human is not innately held in our bodies, but rather is held in our culture. We need to learn how to use the body’s deep-level organising tendency to our advantage — and that learning is fundamental to being human. We are not like cats. Like the Garden of Eden, that particular gate is shut. As humans, we have, inevitably, to contend with doing, as well as not-doing. And that is not a problem, but the very essence of what being a human being is all about.

In addition to the excellent points made by Marcus, the fact is that human structure is perfectly designed to take full advantage of the natural forces (gravity and the strong force, for example*) operating on us when we’re more or less vertical. Cats and dogs and most other animals, on the other hand, have structures designed to work best when more or less horizontal.

My dog Maisie has an amazing ability to stand on her hind legs, but apart from spectacularly high leaps in her vain attempt to terrify squirrels, she can’t really do a lot of moving around on just two legs. Her standing time is measured in seconds, not minutes. She’s usually way more efficient in horizontal mode – she’s the fastest runner of any dog I’ve ever met.

We humans can “walk” on all fours, but it’s typically not a graceful spectacle.

Alexander Technique teachers don’t just love cats and dogs. They also like babies and young children and frequently post images showing their graceful coordination.  The Technique is frequently described as being a way to release harmful habits of posture and movement and bring us back to some sort of idyllic childhood state.

However, to paraphrase Marcus, this gate is also shut.

But for somewhat different reasons.

My friend and colleague John Macy, an Alexander Technique teacher and Physical Therapist up the road in Omaha, Nebraska has given a lot of thought to this very point and here’s a brief summary of his thoughts:

The comparison of children to adults for posture and movement ease is not a valid one for several reasons. The first reason is that they have very different nervous systems. From about the fifth month of fetal development till 40 months after birth the nervous system is becoming myelinated. This myelination enables the nerves to carry signals much faster which in turn means the motor control systems are processing data at faster speeds. More significantly, that data is processed differently in the brain as the brain tissue myelinates, a process in humans that is not completed until their second decade of life. The result is that the operating system (to make a computer analogy) is using Apple for one part of life and Microsoft for another. One is not better than the other but they accomplish basic functions differently in how processing and decision making lead to the observed behavior.

Secondly, the physics of the body are changing. The weight of the head in a 5-year-old child is over 75% of it’s adult weight, but the rest of the body mass is more in the range of 20-25%. Consequently, the physics of how to balance and coordinate the parts are different because mass distribution within the body is significantly different. Add to this that children are much closer to the ground with much less mass so falls have much less force. As a result a significant amount of the fear element over changing balance strategies is markedly reduced.

So, if we can’t move like animals and children, and need to stay in the realm of adult human role models, what are some examples we can aspire to?

My personal favorite is Fred Astaire, a Nebraskan by birth. I love watching his old movies, with the sound off so I won’t be distracted by the plot, and observing how effortlessly and gracefully he moves. The dance scenes are dramatic, but scenes in which he is talking, or walking, or getting in and out of a chair, and the like, are for me the most revealing.

What are your favorite human examples of easy upright posture and graceful human coordination? Please leave you answers below and/or on Facebook.

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* You can learn more about these forces and how they operate on us here: Gravity, Support and Freedom

Here’s a nice clip of Fred Astaire (at almost 50 years old!) showing his easy coordination in ordinary activities:

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Listen Up! Your Ears Have Something To Tell You

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In the beginning was the word – The Bible

The ear is the avenue to the heart – Voltaire

The ear builds, organizes and nourishes the nervous system – Dr. Alfred Tomatis

Tone, pitch, rhythm, harmony – these are among the many terms that can describe the condition of our bodies as well as the quality of sounds we make and hear. Our language is permeated with words and expressions that suggest a deep primal connection between sound and body.

It was F. Matthias Alexander’s desire to improve his voice which led to the far reaching discoveries we now know as the Alexander Technique.

Some fifty years after Alexander’s pioneering work, a French medical doctor, Alfred Tomatis, began investigating the cause of hearing difficulties in his patients. His studies have led to a number of revolutionary new discoveries about previously unknown functions of the ear and the therapeutic effects of sound. He also developed a practical method of enhancing listening skills.

Both Alexander and Tomatis were initially interested in improving sound quality; one with its production, the other with its reception. Today, both the Alexander Technique and the Tomatis Method are recognized as having an extraordinarily wide range of beneficial effects – physical, mental and even spiritual – which extend well beyond the original motivation of their developers.

Their inherent transformation power springs in large measure from their being based on close, practical observations of our relationship with sound, one of the most fundamental aspects of our existence. We live in a veritable “sea of sound”, with our brain receiving far more stimuli, both external and internal, from our ears that from any other organ.

Dr. Tomatis believed the human ear’s primary function is to transform sound energy into an electrical cortical charge which the brain then distributes throughout the body, toning up the entire neuromuscular system.

His method consists of a sensory stimulation program in which the individual listens to electronically modified and filtered sounds through headsets. The content is either music (Mozart and Gregorian chants primarily), the mother’s voice, or the individual’s own voice. The sound is modified by a device called the Electronic Ear. By means of filters, amplifiers and a sophisticated gating mechanism the sound is reshaped and presented to the ears in rapidly alternating forms.

Dr. Tomatis’ early investigations led to the discovery that the human voice can only produce sounds which the ears can hear. The two organs are part of the same neurological loop and a change in the response of one shows up immediately in the other. This has been repeatedly verified by medical investigators and has been named the “Tomatis Effect” by the French Academy of Science and Medicine.

This discovery is very significant for teachers and students of the Alexander Technique because it suggests that Alexander’s work on himself in front of the mirror may have been at least as important in its effect on his capacity to listen as it was on his ability to speak.

Reinforcing this hypothesis is Dr. Tomatis’ finding that in order to hear very high pitched sounds, our body must adopt what he calls a “listening posture”. From my own experience with Tomatis’ work, and my observations of others who have been exposed to it, this corresponds precisely to the Alexander Technique concept of “good use” – neck free, head releasing forward and up with the whole body following.

Midway between the ears where your head rests on top of your spine – a location closely associated with Alexander’s idea of “primary control”. And of course ears have long been known for their importance in maintaining our balance. So it’s not surprising that the commonly reported benefits of the Tomatis Method include improvements in voice quality, posture, co-ordination, balance and general well being similar to some of those experienced by students of the Alexander Technique.

There are many other fascinating parallel between the Tomatis Method and the Alexander Technique. Both are well worth investigating by anyone interested in exploring the links between the mind and body.

If you’ve had experience with the Tomatis Method and the Alexander Technique, please leave your comments below and/or on Facebook.

Only a very brave mouse makes nest in a cat’s ear – Earl Derr Biggens

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Here’s a nice podcast episode from the TED Radio Hour about the importance of learning how to listen: How Can We All Listen Better

You can listen to the episode here:

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Finding the Body

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Where are you?

How would you answer that question?

You might say something like: “I’m in a pretty good place at the moment.” Or “I’m living in wonderful community.” Or even: “I’m in love!”

But perhaps, especially if you’re a Country Music lover, something more like: “I’m in the doghouse now.”  Or “I used to be in Hillbilly Heaven, but now I’m stuck in Honky Tonk Hell.”  There’s often a clear sense that being in a bad place is something will go on forever: “I’ve been in prison 18 years and I still got life to go.”*

On the other hand, if you’re one of a growing group of neuroscientists who believe there is absolutely no evidence of any objective reality at all, and that everything you see, think, hear etc. is a product of your consciousness, then the answer might be: “I’m nowhere because there is no actual ‘place’ to be.”

And if you’re just an ordinary person, perhaps standing in line at the coffee shop waiting for your morning latte, you might say: “I’m 3 feet from the counter, reading this weird blog post about finding the body!”

If you’re a teacher or student of the Alexander Technique, your answer might involve location, but perhaps in an unorthodox way.  Jennifer Roig-Fraincoli, an Alexander teacher in Cincinnatti, finds it useful to think: “I’m at the center of the universe.”  This can bring forth some new ways of thinking designed to improve your posture and coordination. (You can listen to a podcast about her idea here.)

Many Alexander Technique people like to talk about the importance of “being in your body.”

But this raises an interesting question: “Where exactly are the outer surfaces of this body I want to be inside of?”  And equally important: “Where do I think they are located?”  And is there any possibility that I have those surfaces mapped incorrectly? Could I think they are somewhere they are not?

It’s an important line of self-questioning because if there is a mis-match between my belief about the location of the outer perimeter of my self and the reality of it’s location, it’s almost certain that the messages I give myself about how I stand, sit and move are producing posture and movement results that are inefficient, and potentially harmful.

My colleague John Macy, an Alexander Technique teacher and physical therapist in Omaha, Nebraska has been thinking about these sorts of questions a lot.  We’ve worked together to come up with simple ways of determining if you have a mis-match of the sort described above and, if so, some easy ways to correct it.

Another colleague, Imogen Ragone, an Alexander Technique teacher in Wilmington, Delaware kindly agreed to help me with a little YouTube video demonstrating some of these ways and how they can enhance the ease with which you go through life.

This video – seen below – is a bit of an experiment and we value your feedback, and accounts of your experiences using the ideas in the video.  If there is demand for it, we will produce other follow up videos.  Please leave your comments and suggestions on YouTube and/or below and on Facebook.

*Malcolm Gladwell’s podcast, The King of Tears, gives a fascinating analysis of this characteristic of country music. Here’s the actual song by Stonewall Jackson (no, not the Civil War general!) from which this particular example of pure, never ending, country music misery is taken:

Thanks to Anne Kennedy Rickover – my Blog Title Guru – for the title of this blog, and for the idea of using a detective image.

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For the Sake of Us All: Please don’t make an ASSumption out of Yourself

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I recently listened to an On Being podcast titled When the Market is Our Only Language in which Krista Tippitt interviewed Anand Giridharadas, a journalist and writer.  Here’s the official description of podcast:

We Americans revere the creation of wealth. Anand Giridharadas wants us to examine this and how it shapes our life together. This is a challenging conversation but a generative one: about the implicit moral equations behind a notion like “win-win” — and the moral compromises in a cultural consensus we’ve reached, without reflecting on it, about what and who can save us.

Anand has been a featured speaker at think tanks like the Aspen Institute, where the super-rich and super-powerful come together to, as he puts it,  “talk very sincerely about what was going on in the world today, how could you make a difference, how could you start a project to help….what we were doing in coming together in this way was genuinely trying to help, genuinely talking about these problems, genuinely creating action and programs and thousands of little initiatives to help people.”

But after spending a fair amount of time in that rarefied world, his perspective changed: “…in some deeper way, the whole thing, actually, I started to realize, was a conservative exercise in protecting the system that kept us on top.”

He had come to see that the problems these wealthy men and women sincerely wanted to solve were actually direct consequences of their own actions.  Because they, like many of us, were caught up in the process of maximizing income and wealth, they were not able to see that these maximizing decisions had harmful effects on other people, on vital institutions and indeed on the very future of our planet.

An obvious solution for them would be to stop creating those kinds of problems, but that’s not really the kind of thinking most of those people are willing to do.  As Anand says, “…the only acceptable forms of social change are the forms of social change that also kick something back upstairs — language like ‘doing well by doing good,’ which, again, is like, ‘The only conditions under which I’m willing to do good is under which I would also do well.'”

He also says: “Sometimes, on the darker corners of the internet, it’s imagined that rich people are all sitting in a room making these horrible, evil schemes. And part of what I found was that a lot of these folks are incredibly decent and upholding an incredibly indecent system. And the way you get from one side of the river to the other, from those decent people to the indecent system, is the bridge of faulty assumptions and weird myths and bad ideas that have managed to really rise to the fore and conquer a lot of our culture.”

My first reaction, as a former economist, was that what he was saying made perfect sense. And I was a little taken aback that I had never thought about it in those terms before.

My second reaction, this time as a teacher of the Alexander Technique, was that these good, rich and powerful people were clearly in the same sort of boat as the rest of us – although a much bigger one! The Alexander Technique is a process of learning how to become aware of habits of mind and body, and how to make useful changes in those habits. Anyone who has had experience with it knows that we often have our own “faulty assumptions and weird myths” about ourselves, and those faulty assumptions can cause harmful tensions in ourselves while doing basic activities like sitting, standing, speaking, and walking. They can also compromise the quality of our decision making process.

If the rich people at the Aspen Institute want to improve the world, but are really just repairing the deck chairs on the Titanic, we often try to improve our functioning by taking up some new activity – a yoga or exercise class for example – while ignoring dis-functional habits of posture, movement and thinking that are allowed to continue lurking in the background, undermining the quality of our lives and our efforts to improve it.

Our personal situation might seem trivial in scope compared to the actions of the super-rich who, after all, are making decisions that directly affect millions of people. However the harmful way we use ourselves has implications far greater than we imagine.  As John Dewey, America’s most famous philosopher and the “Father of American Education” – and a student of F. Matthias Alexander, the developer of the Alexander Technique pointed out:

“In the present state of the world, it is evident that the control we have gained of physical energies, heat, light, electricity, etc., without having first secured control of our use of ourselves is a perilous affair. Without the control of our use of ourselves, our use of other things is blind; it may lead to anything. If there can be developed a technique which will enable individuals really to secure the right use of themselves, then the factor upon which depends the final use of all other forms of energy will be brought under control. Mr. Alexander has evolved this technique.” – From Dewey’s introduction to Use of the Self, Alexander’s third book, originally published in 1932)

Looking at the world today, it’s pretty clear that Dewey’s prediction nearly a hundred years ago has played out in some pretty terrible ways.

To me, the message here is that whether we’re super rich and powerful, or part of the other 99%, we have a responsibility to take as close, and as unbiased, look as possible at the assumptions that guide our life.  If we don’t, our actions may continue, in Dewey’s words,  “to lead to anything” and future “anythings” may be much worse than we could ever have imagined.

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As it happens, while writing this blog, I stumbled onto an article about Ellwood, a small town 60 miles south of Chicago that has undergone dramatic changes in recent years. Because of it’s location, it was the perfect place to build gigantic warehouses and transportation connections to serve the country’s consumer economy. In just a few years the town has became the largest inland port in North America.

It all sounded good for the local economy at first, but in fact the traffic became a nightmare, roads needed constant maintenance, and the city government was plunged into a financial crisis, in part because it had agreed to tax incentives for the new facilities.

To add insult to injury, virtually no new local jobs were created within the town itself.  The article’s title, “How Ellwood, Illinois (population 2200) Became a Vital Hub of America’s Consumer Economy. And it’s Hell” says it all.

Ellwood represents a perfect example of what Anand was talking about. The people who attend the Aspen Institute might support projects that would help the kinds of problems faced by the people of Ellwood. But those problems were actually created by people like themselves, in their blind pursuit of wealth.

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